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Saint Bernard has got the answer

Saint Bernard Has Got The Answer to All You Woes Week 8 Master Key Experience

Yep, Saint Bernard has got the answer

Here we are Week 8 of the Master Key Experience.  Yep, Saint Bernard has got the answer and it was shared a few weeks ago in the course.

During the Master Key Experience or Master Key Mastermind Alliance as it’s also known, there are assignments and one of the assignments is to read Ralph Waldo Emerson’s Essay on Compensation.  It’s a tough assignment.

In that essay Emerson quotes Saint Bernard. If one understands this quote fully I believe that it’s the answer to all of anyone’s woes.  But you might not like it.

Here it is.

“Nothing can work me damage except myself, the harm that I sustain I carry about with me and never am a real sufferer but by my own fault”                  Saint Bernard of Clairvaux
I highly recommend reading that a second time and maybe more.  Saint Bernard has got the answer to all your woes, difficulties, problems, challenges, issues, addictions, etc. etc. etc.

What this Doctor of the Church is saying is that you have to take 100% responsibility for everything in your life!  The good the bad and the ugly.

Read Saint Bernard again, if you want a happier more peaceful and joyous life read it again and this time own it.

If you hate your job, if you are unhappy in your relationship, if you don’t have a job, if you are alone, if your kids are driving you crazy, if you are sick, if you are really sick, if you are hurt, if someone broke your heart, if someone wronged you, if someone stole from you, hurt your family, if you’ve been devastated by a loss, and I could go on and on and on.

If there is anything, anything at all in your life that you don’t like or want there it’s your fault!  And if there are things in your life you love then that’s your fault too!  The good, the bad and the ugly all your responsibility 100%.


It’s up to you to do something about anything that’s in your life you don’t want there.

I hated my job so I buckled down for 2 solid years, made big sacrifices, and worked as hard as I could to make enough to leave that horrible job!  And now I work for myself.

My dgdaynaaughter was running wild and I was terrified something would happen to her.  So I threw her out and said,  “If you want to act that way you are on your own”.  That was a daily siege but I had to do it.  Now she is the number 3 power in our company.  She’s awesome and mostly Dayna is her own person and doesn’t care about what other people think.  I love that about her.

Now I’m not saying that I’m responsible for the person she is now, but there was no way that I was going to teach my daughter that it was OK to behave badly and not pay the consequences of those actions.  Life doesn’t work that way.

As difficult as it was to watch my beloved daughter live in a dangerous situation I knew it was better than allowing her to disrespected me because that was teaching her not to respect herself and I was not going to do that, no way.

Many people hurt me bad, some family, real bad when I was little and I had no choice then.  But I’m a grown up now and I choose to forgive them for they know not what they did, that is my choice and I move on.  And that’s that!

The ones that hurt me after I was grown, well I take responsibility for that – I choose to be in relationship with them so it’s on me.

I got sick, real sick.  Had to have an operation – but now I eat differently, I exercise, I drink lots of water, avoid processed foods, no GMOs, no doctors, organic, love myself and my future self, and I take care of myself body, mind and soul.  So now I’m healthy.  Blessed to be so healthy after what I’ve done to my poor faithful self  🙂

Well mostly healthy, still have to step up and do better for myself there.  What I’m saying is if you are sick it’s you who made you sick.  Now you say what if little kids and babies are sick – did they make themselves sick.  Yes – period.  Yes they did I don’t know how but I know for sure that the subconscious mind, once set on something, can do anything including make one sick.

But guess what, it can make you well too!

I could go on and on and on with any example.  You’re lonely and alone – then get out there a meet people and find out why, maybe, people don’t like you – ask someone who knows you to honesty tell you what it is that puts people off.  Why can’t I find someone to share my time with.  Do something!  Don’t just sit in an unsatisfying life and blame anyone but yourself!

I have a very close friend who is alone, and lonely but he knows it’s his doing.  He’s not ready or it’s not worth it to him to find someone.  But he’s not pissing and moaning about it he knows it’s his responsibility to make himself happy if he wants to be happy.

Get up and take responsibility for yourself, your joy, your bliss, your peace, your happiness.  Even if it is scary and hurts its better that being unhappy.  Trust me it’s better.

Now if you don’t like all this that I am writing there is a reason for that…

Mahalo & Aloha ~ I love you, and I suggest you do also!

DaveneSaint Bernard has got the answer

Saint Bernard has got the answer

Only 7 Days to a New You MKMMA Week 7

The 7 Days to a New You

The 7 Day Mental Diet or as I sometime call it Only 7 Days to a New You tells us:

If you make a false start, or even if you go on well for two or three days and then for any reason “fall off” the diet, the thing to do is to drop the scheme altogether for several days, and then to start again afresh. There must be no jumping on and off, as it were.

And we at the Master Key Experience have an informal rule about this, Only 7 Days to a New You, which is if you get a negative thought and hold it for more that a few seconds the you must restart the Only 7 Days to a New You.  Even if you’re on day 6 you gotta start again at day 1.

Putting together 7 days without a negative thought is a miraculous achievement.  I hope to get there some day.

But let me tell you the Universe picked an interesting week for our 7 Days to a New You to fall on.  Election week!

And not just another election but the most divisive election in remembered history.  Now I’m not having an negative thought when I say the election is divisive – there has not been an event that has divided the county the way this election has since the Civil War.  Which according to my daughter, Dayna, most high schoolers don’t know happened.   Maybe we do need a change…

I am thrilled that our 7 Days to a New You has fallen on the week.

Maybe this group, the Master Key Experience members, can make a difference in the negative word, thoughts and deeds that are spewing into the country because of this wildly historic election.

Share love, share acceptance, agree to disagree, be kind it’s all going to be fine.  There has not been a three term democrat since Roosevelt.  It’s going to be fine.  Everyone is just caught up in the shock of something that no one really thought would happen.

Let’s embrace that it’s all going to be just great, better that would could have ever imagined!

Living Your Dream


Aloha & Mahalo,


The Gifted Life Self Discovery Course

The Gifted Life Self Discovery Course

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Albert Einstein taught us that “Imagination is more important than knowledge.” The Gifted Life course is not a ‘craft course’! This is a powerful self-discovery experience that will help you change the way You look at things and as a result change your life experience!

I’m highly recommending you view this.


Most of these types of things don’t really work for the average guy or gal if they work at all and usually just lead a sales page – this is not the case with Gifted Life and Sandra Owen.

And they are expensive.

That simply is not what I am sending you to.

You’ve probably heard about the Master Key Experience (MKE) and the “pay-it-forward” scholarships.

There is a reason why over 20 THOUSAND MKE blog entries were made on over 3000 blogs specifically about the Master Key Experience course, what it did for them and the all-scholarship program. And Sandra Owen’s a huge part of this MKE success.

Much of Sandra’s success has come because she met 7-figure a year earners Mark & Davene Januszewski and joined the MKE.

Although a highly credentialed teacher and MKE Certified Master Trainer, Sandra is a true representation of one who is in service to others and has learned how to make that a life energizing experience.

Check out this free video series by clicking the link below and see how the Gifted Life Self Discovery course is transforming lives.




PS: When you get to the site, you’ll have to Opt-in. Just do it. See people who are making changes…and you can see for yourself this isn’t like the normal 2 or 3 testimonials from a couple of “star” students…..but everyone experienced something remarkable.

The #1 Law You Must Know – MKE Week 18

The #1 Law You Must Know is in the, guess what…?

It’s in the Bible and probably a lot of other places too but the reading I did a few days ago quotes the Bible and here it is:
Philippians 4:8
Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and i there be any praise, think on these things.

This is the “Law of Growth” the greatest or the laws of the mind. This is a basic, fundamental, ubiquitous, law of the mind. ALL and I mean ALL psychological and metaphysical teaching is little more that commentary upon this, period.

Mahalo & Believe,
The Fab Davene

Master Key mastermind Alliance

Master Key Mastermind Alliance Week 16

Master Key Mastermind Alliance Week 16

It’s exciting to write a blog this week.  Master Key Mastermind Alliance Week 16.

After the webinar on Sunday and our belated Christmas it got me thinking about family Master Key Mastermind Alliance Week 16and how being in the MKMMA can affect that delicate family balance.

This week, and in the future, walking in the footsteps of my amazing husband and business partner Mark Januszewski is the order of the day because here’s a video instead of writing lots of word.

It seems to be the wave of the future during the Master Key Mastermind Alliance Week 16 and 2016 and I believe I’m a bit behind the 8 ball but not for long.  So here is my first Vlog.

How Can A Pebble Make You Happy

Years ago I did this weekend retreat called A Cursillo.  Here is a description:

The Cursillo weekend is an invitation for you to experience the love of Jesus Christ on a personal level and to bring this love and joy into your daily life.

I gotta say for that time in my life I felt very loved.  The people who run the Cursillo encourage your family, friends and even strangers to write you notes and letters and give you little gifts whatever they want to show how you are loved.

There are other things that people will do like fast or give something up (sacrifice) for the time you are at Cursillo to honor what you are doing.  While I was there my sister put a pebble in her shoe to remind her to pray for me and send me love and strength.  My sister sacrificed comfort to be of service to me.

This got me thinking about a challenge that we have with people who decide to take the giant leap into the Master Key Mastermind Alliance experience.  Now lots of people take the course and experience real life changing stuff so it’s important that we give them all the help we can.

Sacrifice is a big part of what we teach members in the Master Key Mastermind Alliance course and the other day I was reminded of the pebble in my shoe thing.

seaturtleWe were standing on the rocks watching the sea turtles in Poipu and a tiny rock slipped into my shoe and I walked with that pebble till I got to the car.

The led me to thinking about sacrifice and service and our members.  See we have these Certified Guides that are there to help our members through the course.  Yes, we offer this amazing one on one support.  So I am working out ways to assist the Certified Guides in helping our members make it through the entire course and making their lives better.

When we think about becoming better, and part of becoming better is giving up the things that are in our way, we have to include sacrifice.  Sacrifice in other words means giving up or overcoming whatever is in your way of achieving the life you want.

This is a struggle for most people.  If they can even think of what it is they want their life to be in the first place then they can try and figure out what is getting in the way of achieving that life.

So I have a suggestion.

pebbleinshoeIf your life is not what you want it to be e.g. are you happy, do you know your unique talents, do you experience bliss?  Are you happy in your job, your relationships, your living situation, with your family, with your friends.  Do you feel whole, perfect, strong, powerful, loving, harmonious and happy?  If you don’t then put a pebble in your shoe.  Walk around with that in your shoe all day and try and figure out what it is that you must give up or overcome to achieve a blissful life.

This is just an experiment that I’m trying out so go ahead and do it and let me know what happens.

The Master Key Mastermind Alliance changes lives and it can change yours too.  Check it out at

Aloha & Mahalo from beautiful Kauai

The Fab Davene


Another Miracle of the Master Key Experience


Working hard and having the right mind set certainly helps.  This amazing life didn’t just appear before my eyes.  Hard mental labor had to be applied daily.

The hard mental labor most are not willing to do, as stated by Charles Haanel the author of The Master Key System – which is why so few have amazing lives.  That’s sad to me because this is not easy but it’s very simple.

The “Master Key Experience” is the fastest and easiest way possible to achieve what you really want in life.  This course was created by the magnificent Mark Januszewski.


Because I received ANOTHER email today that blew my mind, made me cry a little, made my heart soar, made me cover my mouth, say OOOOOOOO and thank the Universe.  In the words of the immortal Dirty Harry, “go ahead made my day.”

Well it happened today.  Another “Master Key Experience” member and Certified Guide for the “Master Key Experience” just made my day!

Like I said ANOTHER email.  Because I get alot of these “blow your mind” emails, thank the Universe I do, but this one was particularly rewarding and humbling.

The reason for that is when we received this marvelous woman’s DMP (Definite Major Purpose) statement a few years ago, A DMP is what our members are required to do.  Write out their goals in a particularly powerful way.  Anyway when the DMP was received it was assigned to my daughter – The Dynamic Dayna Marie Merry.  Now Dayna was an apprentice at critiquing DMPs at that time and wisely asked for assistance.  Dayna said, “Mom she wants to move to Ireland but she’s so negative about it I don’t know what to tell her”?  So she sent it to me to help.

When I saw the DMP it was indeed extremely negative and needed some improvement but I could feel the true desire written in it and gave her some educated feedback.

This person ultimately because a Certified Guide with the “Master Key Experience” and now she gives educated critiques to new members on their DMPs.  So that’s cool – but you have got to read what I received this morning from that very person:

Just wanted to let you know that I am moving with my family to Ireland in August!!  Yes I had it in my DMP and it’s manifesting right before my eyes.  We put our house on the market May 1st and we were in contract 3 weeks later.  Our next adventure is just beginning.  I am embracing all that goes with moving and there is a lot as you know. 


This is a blow your mind email and is just another in a long line of bliss, joy, happiness, courage, strength, perfection, power, love DMPs that have come to fruition through the Master Key Experience.

There will be many, many more to come and I hope if you are reading this that you’ll be one of them because I know you deserve to be deeply happy everyday of your life.

The joy I feel at being able to humbly serve the great beings that inhabit this planet is indescribable and I feel truly, truly blessed by God, or whatever you choose to call this marvelous Universal Energy, that helps me daily.

Lou Gehrig’s got nothing on me today!

MKMMA Week 4 – The Old Blueprint

With Gold Key On Home Construction BlueprintsThis is our 5th MKMMA class.  It’s shaking out about the same as the previous 4.  That’s because we are dealing with humans.

I rejoice in all the MKMMAers who are sticking it out and doing the work and going the extra mile to improve their lives and the lives of all who surround them.

Not it’s not easy but it’s very, very simple!


I know the MKMMA course is not perfect, as we are human too.  Pretty close though.

Humans pretty much will all behave about the same when confronted with the reality of their current lives and circumstances.  Most of which they are NOT happy with. BTW.

Just watch the some TV if you don’t believe me.  No I don’t mean watch a TV show or shows, I mean really watch it.

Oh I know you don’t watch TV, ya nobody watches TV.  😉

Zero good news on the news – which isn’t news since it not the truth.  Reality TV?  Zombies?  Drugs, violence, murder, that’s what humans want.

Even PBS is funded by the Koch Kriminals.

It can sometimes be sad to be idealistic in the world in which we live, where you have to search for good news and heroes.

Our mission is to show as many people as possible that THEY ARE heroes, that they deserve peace, joy, happiness, bliss and all that life has to offer.  IF and only IF they are willing to do the work!

Anyone who has the courage to change is a hero in their own life!  What is better than that?

Sadly so many won’t answer the call, the call to become a hero.  They will let their old blueprint, the one that makes them so unhappy, win.

This is a hard week for me because so many will go back to their lives of quiet desperation, as Thoreau so beautifully stated, such a sad truth.  So that’s it – I let it go.


I rejoice in all the MKMMAers who are sticking it out, diggin in and doing the work and going the extra mile (without judgement) to improve their lives and the lives of all who surround it.

Not it’s not easy but it’s very, very simple!



Here Is Your 1 Solution to Everything!

Just created this new Opt In Campaign The 7 Day Mental Diet based on Emmet Fox’s great work.

My friend and a member of our Master Keys Mastermind Alliance course Marea Adejuwon gave me this great idea, so I did it.

If you opt in on my list you get this great Solution to Everything.  Most people are too busy to take the time to read 4 pages that will change their lives forever, but some of them will do it.

A a great part is the campaign is on 5 emails – Everyone know we all get to many emails.

I’m just back to blogging after a long, long time and we are launching Master Key Mastermind Alliance course again soon so I’m getting back in the blog saddle.

We had a very eventful summer so blogging was not at the top of the list.

We had a grand daughter the same weekend of the Go90Grow Live Event here is Kauai, that was actually kind of cool that it happened then.  Little Soul is now 4 months old it’s hard to believe.

All my dreams are coming true and a little native hawaiian grand baby was one of those dreams.  I get to take care of the angel Soul every Sunday & Monday for now.

This is because of the principles laid out in The 7-Day Mental Diet and the Master Keys.


Why the MLM Gurus and Icons Hate The World’s Laziest Networker

Saw this picture on Facebook today ~ we all see these types pictures and quotes all the time. Usually posted by Network Marketers, Internet Marketers or Multi Level Marketers trying to get you to buy something or opt for something, right.  Ironically not this person though.  🙂

If I could figure out why this is so popular I’d be as smart as Zuckerberg himself.

Social Media seems more a place to pontificate with famous people quotes and political ravings. Although I have to say I believe that sites like Facebook could make a real difference in the world if everyone would use it to spread the word about the injustices in the world – but don’t just inform; offer a solution!!!

This picture and quote is a perfect example.

Great, talk to the elephant ~ thanks alot for the advise but how the hell do I do that?

My hope is that when you see these silly posts that you take action and find out how to accomplish this feat or other.

But how much better would the world be if the instructions on how to talk to the elephant were included or how to make your attitude determine your altitude… or some other wonderful useless quote.

And those that rant about Obama, GMO (me), Taxes or the myriad of issues used to distract us from the truth. When you post one of these things that outraged you; a solution must be included. You have to also post some kind of solution…. It should be the law of social media. No ranting or complaining without a equal opportunity to do something about it.

Anyway back to the Elephant.

Ya, ya people are always spouting off about your attitude, your goals, your why, be positive, on and on and on but no one and I mean NO ONE give you any solution.

No one gives you the directions of HOW to achieve this great attitude we are all supposed to maintain. Especially all those Gurus and Icons that hate The World’s Laziest Networker.

So why do they ‘hate‘ the World’s Laziest Networker?

Well, they probably don’t ‘hate‘ him…’s more about ‘human nature’…..people tend to not like what they do not understand……it’s the basis for prejudice, eh?

Maybe they are just doing what they were taught and the don’t realize that people need the directions, the skills.  But the real problem people, the, ahem, gurus peddling ‘secrets’ have with the Laziest Networker is 2 fold.   First, he makes it clear that there are not really any ‘secrets’ and, secondly, you can build a big, big business very part time.

See, some MLMers cannot understand, so they decide to ‘not believe’ that you can build a big business in under 12 hours a week.   Period.   This means someone who has done OK income-wise but worked full time to get there would have to admit there is a better way.   Ut-oh…..that means the ‘secrets’ don’t hold water and that’s not so good if you are in the secret selling business.

I know, because I saw it happen, several times, one can easily build this business to gangster money very part time once they believe that is true and learn the mindset [no, not some ‘feel good’ POP motivational nonsense], and the skills.   That is a 1-2 punch I saw developed, defined, refined and work…..for him, myself and 1000s that ‘get it’.

The suffering with MLM, leads, politics inside groups, fear, and doubt can end as soon as you decide there must be a better way and surrender to the simple idea of embracing a 4000 year old truth…..

THINK!  Think to when you were a kid and the future seems unlimited.  Today, most people have lost that spot.   You’ve got to get back to that spot, to that moment you believed your future was going to be incredible……because, within that spot is something very special.   Access to a power that will virtually manifest thoughts on demand.  I know, I’ve seen this happen over and over and over again……and NO…..this is not ‘self help’ feel warm and fuzzy stuff.  You have to know where this power is,  how to access it, claim it and use it.

For most people this seems like ‘Aladdin Lamp’ nonsense but I can assure you this is the reason people tend to be highly critical of this Lazy Networker thing.   You’ll discover, if you really look and experience the MKMMA [it’s a free course, don’t worry, not pitch coming], that no one who goes through it doubts the power and ability to create change on demand.

Not so easy in this world that is telling you, with every single opportunity it gets, that you are NOT good enough. Not smart enough, not skinny enough, not pretty enough. DOWN WITH DISNEY!!! Princesses suck! Prince Charming only cares about one thing if you know what it mean! That’s reality! And in such a crazy whirlwind reality, with 1000 things screaming at you from all directions, you need the instructions, the direction, and answers on how to get this wonderful positivity attitude that everyone is supposed to have already….. ya right.

So, here we are.  A defining moment for you.   Go with the ‘gurus and icons’ view of stuff or investigate …   And that word free is another problem so people have who feel they are in competition with Mark, The World’s Laziest Networker.   How can he keep giving all this stuff that actually works, away, free?   More prejudice 🙂  That kind of thinking make it clear, once you learn and apply the Master Key System the way he teaches it……why success will never come from people leveraging inexperience & fear, selling secrets or leads.

So I am tired of all the rhetoric and mindless spouting and ranting and I have some solutions for you. If you take the FREE Master Key Mastermind Alliance course you get the answers you yearn for, locate the power to manifest and learn the simple truth behind all self sustaining success.