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How To Make It An Adventure

§ April 25th, 2011 § Filed under Uncategorized § 6 Comments

Make everyday an adventure. Those words used to seem so “corny” to me back in the day.

Ya, ya whatever enjoy yourself fruitloop. That’s what I would think if I ever heard someone say that. Even if it was a Tony Robbins or Jim Rohn or even Joyce Meyers or Charles Stanley. I figured they were just “saying that” to get me to cough up the cash or keep listening or whatever it is they do. Not that it’s bad. I don’t think that of any one selling CDs or Books on TV. I really don’t – there are many that helped me and I’m grateful.

Now I am thrilled to say making life an adventure everyday is the only way to go.

When I met my husband, Mark Januszewski The World’s Laziest Networker, I still believed that it was just something people said. They don’t really make everyday an adventure. That’s impossible. People have jobs, kids, housework, lawn mowing, you know, responsibilities. Tons of them. When is there time for adventure? Well, as I said I married Mark Januszewski and let me tell you every day is an adventure.

I wasn’t ready for it when I met him, maybe that’s why it took 9 years for us to get married. Thank You Father my husband is a patient man. And of course a couple times through the Master Key Mastermind Alliance helped.

I realize now that making everyday an adventure is not what I thought I was.

Being immature spiritually, mentally and emotionally I didn’t realize it means to just live, be alive, be giving meaning to your life everyday. It’s up to me to give meaning to live and thus make it an adventure.

One of my favorite movies all my life has been Auntie Mame with Roselyn Russell. If you have ever seen this great movie you know one of Mame’s great lines is, “Live, live, live, that’s the message, life is a banquet and most poor suckers are starving to death.” I know now why that has always stayed with me and I watch that movie at least once a year. LIVE!! Be alive, give meaning to life everyday, each and everyday.

It means being in service, doing things for others to give life vitality. Not just thinking about doing a nice thing for someone but actually doing it. Pay for the car behind you at the tolls once in a while. Throw a quarter into the meter. Help an elderly person. Help a struggling mom, don’t judge her parenting skills see if she could use a hand. Do it!! I make life a daily adventure. It feels so good to be coming from you heart. That’s the adventure, living from your heart.

How many times have you wanted to reach out and you didn’t, and then you feel bad you didn’t. Lots. We get chances all day, everyday. Opportunities to reach out and make little miracles in the lives of others. Be the observer find them, they’re there I promise.

My wonderful husband showed me that, he shows me that everyday. When I tell you I am blessed it doesn’t seem big enough. Those words are not big enough to explain how amazing my life is everyday.

We had an adventure today. Wow, a bike ride down that canyon, but for me that wasn’t the real adventure. Hair raising for certain. Although that was exhilarating and a little scary the real adventure was how it ended up happening.

Mark always wanted to do this, ride down the canyon on a bike. Well for the last 5 years anyway and he wanted to do it today, on his birthday. Me No! Not interested.

When Mark told his daughter Chelsea he always wanted to do this crazy thing she got ahold of the idea and even thought he said last week, “No forget it. It’s to complicated.” And it really is complicated. Chelsea didn’t forget it, she got the bikes, arranged eveything and made it happen.

Chelsea gets it, thanks to her Dad, by being in service to her Dad and me and herself she gave us all such an amazing feeling of adventure today. That she went the extra mile and got this together for her Dad is a great inspiration to me and I feel so blessed to have Chelsea as my daughter and to watch and see what an incredible woman he raised. And trust me it was all him. Seeing a daughter give this gift to her father was the great adventure today to me.

Today is his birthday and I know, for certain, God wasn’t just dancing on the day Mark was born, there was sining and jumping up and down and all sorts of revelry.

I made a video part way down. The wind noise is really loud, we were flying, and some parts all you can see if my finger, sorry, but it’s cool. Watch it and leave a comment if you want.

Blessings and Believe,
Davene

The Keys to Network Marketing Success

§ April 19th, 2011 § Filed under Uncategorized § 4 Comments

Blogging or Vlogging is the order of the day. Google loves to rank wordpress blogs. That’s just the way it is. I have no idea why, not alot of this stuff makes sense to me. I don’t even know if the techno wizards (aka. the kids that we used to make fun of in high school) even know what the heck is going on here with the interwebby thing.

So today I will blog or vlog of whatever the heck I am doing about Network Marketing Success because besides 1. being a good wife and mother and 2. selling Hondas, that’s what I know best. Why? Because I have run 4 very successful network marketing businesses AND I am married to the greatest network marketing genius on the planet. Mark Januszewski The World’s Laziest Networker.

Here are the 3 Keys:
Key number 1 – Initial contact. This is exposing your business is a tactful, rejection free way. Not rocket science but something alot of networkers seem to struggle with, sadly because it’s the easy part.

Key number 2 – Presentation. This is insuring that a person that you have “exposed” actually sees a factual, interesting, compelling presentation so you can help themd make a decision.

Key number 3 – Coaching. Once someone has been exposed, presented and decided now you have to teach them effectively how to accomplish Key number 1 and Key number 2 effectively.

You may think there’s more but it’s almost all in there. If you know how to correctly execute the 3 Key components you will have Network Marketing Success.

At Mark’s site The World’s Laziest Networker there a tons of free skills and if you opt in to the list you’ll get even more free skills. It’s all there for free. You don’t have to pay anyone for leads, or magic systems, or the newest think that is going to revolutionize the industry. How many time have I hear that one. Please give me a break will ya.

Anyway, in May we are going to launch a new product Go90Grow. This course will encompass the 3 Keys to Network Marketing Success and give networkers all the skills they need to grow into a true leader and financial success in the network marketing industry.

Network Marketing Success, Personal, Financial Success & Gratitude

§ April 7th, 2011 § Filed under Uncategorized § 3 Comments

We are finished with the  Master Key Master Mind Alliance this time around.  It’s been amazing, for me and lots of you I believe.

There have been, as usual, enormous changes in me and alot of our participants.  There is just nothing else like this on the planet.  It’s the greatest course ever.

I just spoke with a couple of former participants and they still tell me, over a year and a half later, that it’s the best thing they ever did in their lives.  Can you imagine someone saying that!!  It’s just so, so fantastic.  It means more to me than to them I think, the privledge of being is service is such an honor to me I can’t express it.

I believe my success in my life has been due totally to the service I have rendered.  Network Marketing Success, personal success, financial success all of it.  My life has become an amazing adventure and like Nancy DelRossi says, I can take the bumps and bruises of being on the hero’s journey.

If I could express my gratitude towards each and every participant in theMKMMA that would be a blessing to me.  I wish everyone to know, including those how didn’t make till the end, and those who think they didn’t do it right or those who think they cut corners or whatever if I could express my gratitude to all of you I’d be very happy.  You all deserve all the credit, all of it.  Just the act of saying “I’m In” is such an inspiration to me to move forward everyday.  Try harder, work harder at being a better person.  The person who is worthy of having the privledge of facilitating such an amazing course.

Having even just a tiny part in facilitating a change in someone, being a channel for the Universal Mind to work though is more that I could have ever asked for in life.  So thanks to you all for letting me be that.

Blessings and Believe,
Davene

My Whole Life Is a Bloody Miracle – Week 21

§ February 26th, 2011 § Filed under Uncategorized § 3 Comments

My husband says I tend to be hard on people in general but soft on those around me that I love. Which I think is true, I do have “knee jerk reactions” to things I think are stupid. (Why does he have to be right about everything, it’s annoying sometimes) Like the way America votes on American Idol for example. Really Jennifer Hudson doesn’t win. Really! How stupid is America, well I better not go there that’s a long list.

See, that is what he means, I am so hard on the entire country but then let my kids get away with murder.

Well the other thing I am hard on is me. But it’s kind of funny because I slack on the stuff that is the most important and get done all the periphal things that are not “income producing or impact activities”. I look really busy and prodcutive most of the time. Do you know what I mean? Ya you do. I know you do. Being human is NOT easy.

I procrastinate on the really important things to do the not so important things. I tell myself these have to be done too. But why do I do them before the IC/IA stuff. Seems I’m stupid, just like America. No kidding, America is way stupider than me. LOL

The fact that I realize this is a miracle. That I am not doing the impact stuff AND that I am not kicking the shit out of myself is a miracle. Not only am I not kicking the shit out of myself I am actually writing, in print, for all to see that I am not doing the impact stuff first and all the time. HAH!! Miracle! Awareness is 80% the rest is work. I’m good – Everyday and in every way I’m getting better and better.

It’s easy to see miracles everyday here in Kauai, everywhere you look is a postcard and well, look who I live with. Mark is a walking talking miracle. So the miracles are abundant. It’s easy for me to see miracles around me, I didn’t murder the dog yesterday or my mother-in-law (she’s not one of the people around me that I’m easy on, workin’ on it), that’s a miracle.

My little mean girl daughter was nice today, and it was about her sister. THAT’S A MIRACLE.

Just now, right when I was writing this Mark called me down to the other side of house and we saw this totally cool thing. This big gecko was on a banana leave and because of the way the sun was shining we could see the whole outline of him through the leaf. It looked so cool. I think that’s a miracle. The gecko on the leaf at the perfect time of day for the sun to shine just right and Mark sitting in the perfect place at that moment to see him. Well it could be a girl gecko I guess!

Any my point is that is easy to see miracles outside ourselves and this week I decided to look inside for the miracles. And these abundant. I won’t bore you with all of them, there’s a bunch. I will just encourage you to see the miracle that is you. Sit down and think about all the miraculous things you have done in the past 5 months. It’s astonishing it’s well…….. a miracle.

Blessing and Believe,
Davene

Changing Habits thru The Law of Growth – Week 18

§ February 3rd, 2011 § Filed under Uncategorized § 12 Comments

The Law of Growth is the mother of everything.  It seems so simple, what you think about grows so just think of the things that you want in your life.  AND be sure not to let the thought that you don’t want in.  HA!   Not so easy.  Right at this moment I am thinking of murder.  I don’t know if it’s mid life crap or what but I have these days where I just want to throttle people.  Everyone is annoying me and rubbing me the wrong way and I am trying to think – I’m grateful, this sand paper is rubbing me nice and smooth.  But I still have mayhem in my heart and mind.

The Law of Growth and the Master Key Master Mind has showed me that understanding your subconscious is essential to spiritual growth.  Changing my habits through all the daily exercises has been a tremendous learning experience.  Now I know that changing the habit of the way I think is the most important habit of all and the most difficult.  What I think about grows.  What I think about all the time roots itself in my subconscious so I have to stop thinking about how much I am being annoyed and think about how I can get into service.  OK so I am going to go get into service and then finish this blog.  I’ll let you know how it goes….

Pfew I feel better and she is still alive!

Ya it works everytime.

We did the last Master Key Master Mind Alliance class back in 2009 and when that class was going on I was doing all the stuff we are doing now and changing habits on a daily basis, all the reading and studying the Laws of the Mind including the Law of Growth.  I’m telling you this because my DMP was to move to Kauai, I had the date for April 2012.  My faithfulness to all these principles and doing the exercises changing habits and using the Law of Growth by thinking about Kauai everyday and focusing on that goal made it happen.

The reason I am here and NOT freezing my behind off in the worst winter in history back in New England is because I changed by habits by following the Master Key System and participating in the Master Key Master Mind Alliance and you can too!

Blessings and Believe,

Davene

Master Key Mastermind Alliance Home Run- Week 17

§ January 30th, 2011 § Filed under Uncategorized § 3 Comments

Just a heads up about what you’ve gotten yourselves into.  Read this very carefully it’s important.

We received this email from Lisa Anderson:

Hey Mark……found this picture when I was proving to Chuck that I had met you in DC…..not sure who the rest of the people are but I know that’s Artie Leonard on the left. Looking forward to meeting again in Kauai! Lisa

And here is the picture – not sure why she had to prove this to her husband, doghouse Chuck, and he didn’t just take her work for it, but I do understand the principle.  People just love what Mark does, they are so impressed by him especially when he trains them, or when he starts working with them, or when the meet him at events.  He’s an impressive guy.

It got me to thinking about what we are doing here with the Master Key Master Mind Alliance.  Now I know that this task, maybe, seems a little daunting right now but I know, that I know, that I know that we can do it.

We are such a GREAT bunch of people and without a doubt my husband, Mark Januszewski, The World’s Laziest Networker, can create such amazing material that we have a home run on our hands!

For those of you who know Mark and his work or have seen him on stage you know he is THE BEST “entertrainer” on the planet.

For those of you who don’t know I’m going to tell you.

Here’s a snapshot of what happens when Mark speaks at an event or does any kind of training at all.  Once he is done and goes back stage or off stage he is immediately surrounded and people who just gush compliments and praise and thanks all over him.  If it’s a small event lets say 200 or less we spend the next 4 hours taking one person after the other who want a piece of Markie.  Usually these lovely folks wait in line, can you imagine waiting a couple of hours in line to talk to someone?  I’ve never done that.  Maybe I should.

If it’s a big event like a convention or something this is a nightmare for me.  We can’t even get more that a few feet down a hallway before someone is stopping us, more compliments, questions, thank you’s, then another line forms.  I am not kidding!  And usually we are all dressed up and I’m in heels!  Like Ginger Rogers said, she had to do everything Fred Astaire did except backwards and in high heels.

No I kidding, I love this attention lavished on my wonderful husband.  He deserves it.  I really do love that part.  It’s so much fun to be famous is a small time and place.  What a great feeling when I would hear people whispering to each other about how great Mark is, and how they can’t wait to meet him and talk to him, that was blissful.  Then he’d tell people that I am the “brains”.  Don’t you believe it, he’s a genius, you have a genius working for you!  Do you realize that?

What I am trying to get across with my little story here is that Mark is the best at what he does and between our efforts in building lists and learning how to be better networkers with Network Marketing Skills and Mark,  The World’s Laziest Networker creating this amazing product the sky is the limit for us, for all of us!

We are going to knock it out of the park!

Mark loves sports analogies.

Blessings and Believe,

Davene

Mrs. World’s Laziest Networker

Change, Change and More Change it Adds Up To Dollars Eventually – Week 17

§ January 26th, 2011 § Filed under Uncategorized § 5 Comments

We are always moving, not matter what you think.  Hopefully you don’t think your not moving.  The earth is spinning, as we all know, at a dizzying speed.  Everything is growing or dying.  Plants, birds, bugs, grass, without effort.  Stuff just comes to life and dies all around us all the time. It’s not hard to change, just look at the nature of it all around you.  The grass just grows with no effort and so can you.  Especially if you’re in the Master Key Master Mind Alliance.

You’re moving and changing, I’m moving and changing.  And here is the important part, if your not moving forward your going backwards.  There is no stagnation, stagnation is death.  Once there is death, that it it’s over.  You’re done.

Mark likes to quote Will Rogers all the time, “Even if your on the right track you’ll get hit by a train if you don’t keep moving”.

There is alot of change in life, life is constant change.  Think about it, who were you last week, last month, last year?  Someone totally different than the person you are now.  One day can completely change you.  Even all your cells are changed in about 11 months I told by the experts.  You’re a totally different person.  It’s constant change.

So answer me this please, why the hell is change so darn difficult for everyone.  Oh, there are those few, 5% probably, who embrace and love change, but for the most part humans abhor change.

Why?  I have no friggin idea, any suggestions would be welcome.

So I know that there is alot of change with all the techno stuff that we’re doing in the MKMMA course but you gotta change anyway.  The whole world is changing toward technology.  It’s scary – what is the bullshit about there being more technology in my iphone than on the entire Apollo spaceship.  That nuts.  I was 5 when the Eagle landed on the moon, July 20th, 1969, how can that be possible.

Well it is.  Jump on this technology horse and thank God, or whoever you thank, and be kissing the ground your standing on grateful, that someone wants to teach it to you for free.

No I’m kidding you don’t have to kiss the ground.  But embrace this challenge, if it’s a challenge for you, and get excited about sharing these amazing ideas and being in service AND making some Change.

Blessings & Believe,

Davene J

Mrs. World’s Laziest Networker

I’m Trying to Write a Friggin Blog – Week 15

§ January 18th, 2011 § Filed under Uncategorized § 5 Comments

MY BRAIN IS COMPLETELY SCATTERED

Last week I spent hours trying to figure out who was out and who was in the Master Key Mastermind Alliance Class.  Then I realized that I am 2 weeks behind on my blog!!!  Holy double standard Batman.   Although I am sitting here in paradise behind my laptop appreciation and gratitude are running thin.

There are now 5 people living here, 4 women, a man and a dog.  As a result my brain is completely scattered.  Being pulled in 6 directions at a time minimum.  Although I have to tell you some of that is my own fault.  If someone is in need I am the first to jump.  So I cause alot of my own interruptions.   And now I’ve been trying to write this blog for 3 hours!  And on top of everything I had to watch the *&$%# Patriots lose to the New York F’ing Jets AND miss the Golden Globes!!  The Golden Globes are the Oscar playoffs so 2 huge playoff disappointments… Whoa is me…but I’m telling your right now I WILL be missing the February 27th call I just telling you right now!

Haven’t lived with this many people since I was a kid, there were 10 of us in the house, 2 cats and a dog.  Good, Irish, Catholic family.  My mom had a full time job as an RN – how the hell did she do it, my Dad was no help at all.  Just more work actually.  When I think of my mom and the crazy, nuts, busy life she had I feel like such an ungrateful whiner.  So I’m going to think of her more, as a good example to me.  We lost that wonderful woman when I was 28 and she was 56.  I was a young mother and I really missed her, so I’m think maybe I won’t work so hard….  :(

Anyway living with all of these women you’d think Mark would be the one having a hard time – but Noooooo – we’re ready to kill each other sometimes, meow cat fight – and he’s having a ball.  Mark loves it.  Not that we are not exactly harmonious, he is just loving the whole experience of a multi-generational home.  He’s so grateful and doesn’t beef with any of us, he has true serenity, sometimes I want to give him a slap and say how the F are you dealing with this so well.  He has embraced the role of head of the household and it’s fantastic to watch, this is a spiritually grounded man. I’m telling you right now, do whatever Mark tells you to.  With network marketing skills, with Master Key stuff whatever don’t question it, just do it.  Nike again!  He right!

Back on point, maybe, Mark and I learned in a class we took one time that 1 interruption causes at least 15 minute of time lost.  So you’re sitting there working, minding your own business, you’re in the flow, all is going well then someone comes up and starts talking to you or the phone rings or you are the only person who know where someone’s headset is or whatever.  Now for you to take care of whatever the interruption is and then get back in your flow takes at least 15 minutes.  For me it’s more like 1 hour.  Again alot of them are my own fault.  And to make my point it is now 4:11 PM, HST and I have gotten NOTHING done.

Are you getting the feeling that I am creating a very nice, little excuse for being behind on my blogs.  If so I am very proud of you because I am.  We’re you buying it up till now?  LOL.

There is no excuse for me not being up to date on my blog and I apoligize to you all, even thought noone seems to be reading my blog.  :(

Still I am sorry, we’re requiring you to do this work and there is NO reason for me not to be doing the work too.  So I am doing it.

Blessings & Believe,

Davene