You see all the quotes on Facebook about living your dreams. Speaking of dream quotes, the best one I ever heard was Quincy Jones he said, “If you can be discouraged from living your dream then you should be.”
I just love that one.
You hear it and see it all the time. “If you do what you love you’ll never work a day in your life”. “Do what you love and the money will come”. “Be happy first and success will follow”. Essentially improve yourself, but they never tell you how.
Although all of these are true you may ask yourself, or if you’re like me, you may wonder, “OK so how do I find out what I love to do, because I have no f’ing idea what it is.”
That was a big question of mine for years, I don’t really know what I love. And if you grew up like me, in a crazy home, I mean really crazy then, I believe, that question is even harder to answer.
If you are one of the lucky ones, like my wonderful husband Mark Januszewski, The World’s Laziest Networker, and had this great childhood. Even though his Dad was tragically killed in the Koren whatever it was, he knew from a very young age who and what he was. He was nurtured by amazing, loving Sicilians. He knows what he loves.
I believe that is why so many are attracted to his message and he communicates it so strongly so people, most people, understand that he just truly wishes for their success.
Getting a good head start, like Mark did, I really do believe helps in the quest for “What do I love?” But mahalo to my husband and other for showing me the number 1 way to find what I love and live my dream.
Here is a video of me back in 2008 when we were on your last vacation to Kauai – in 2010 we moved here to the very spot that I am recording from in Kekaha.
So here it is June 4, 2013 and I’ve been living here in my dream for 3 years!
Number 1 Why To Live You Dream is to live your dream in your imagination, it must be real in your mind before it will become real in your life. Imagination is the only bridge to enthusiasm (If you put any stock in Einstein) -and that authentic enthusiasm taught me what I really love to do – I found it by taking the time for myself – every day. It’s 15 minutes a day and the payoff is PRICELESS!
You can do it too!
Aloha and Mahalo from Kauai
“The Fabulous” Davene